Seen, Loved, Blessed

Seventh Sunday of Easter Year A
Christ the King-Epiphany Church, Wilbraham, MA
May 17, 2026

With thanks to the Rev. Mark Bozutti-Jones who inspired this sermon.

1 After Jesus had spoken these words [to his disciples,] he looked up to heaven and said, “Father, the hour has come; glorify your Son so that the Son may glorify you, 2 since you have given him authority over all people, to give eternal life to all whom you have given him. 3 And this is eternal life, that they may know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom you have sent. 4 I glorified you on earth by finishing the work that you gave me to do. 5 So now, Father, glorify me in your own presence with the glory that I had in your presence before the world existed.
  6 “I have made your name known to those whom you gave me from the world. They were yours, and you gave them to me, and they have kept your word. 7 Now they know that everything you have given me is from you, 8 for the words that you gave to me I have given to them, and they have received them and know in truth that I came from you, and they have believed that you sent me. 9 I am asking on their behalf; I am not asking on behalf of the world but on behalf of those whom you gave me, because they are yours. 10 All mine are yours, and yours are mine, and I have been glorified in them. 11 And now I am no longer in the world, but they are in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, protect them in your name that you have given me, so that they may be one, as we are one.” – John 17:1-11

Alleluia! Christ is risen!
Christ is risen, indeed! Alleluia!

                  This past week the clergy of the Episcopal Diocese gathered for our annual retreat together for the first time with Bishop Howell, our newly consecrated bishop. It was a full few days, time to pray, to build relationship, to think about who we are and what our ministry is about. 

                  Our chaplain for the days invited us in our closing time of prayer into a practice of praying for one another. He held up for us an Ethiopian cross, which is an ornate style of cross in a diamond shape made of metal, usually with intricate designs that you see through. He held it up in front of his face and invited us to consider what it means to see each other through the cross. How might we view one another in light of Christ’s self-emptying love? 

                  Then he asked us one by one to bless each other. He invited the first person up and held up the cross to see them through it. And said “I see you. I love you,” and then, gently using the cross to lay a blessing on their head, “I bless you.” 

                  “I see you. I love you. I bless you.” Over and over, one at time, each person blessing the next til all 50 or so had given and received blessing.

                  I’ll tell you, at first I wasn’t sure. I thought it would get old as we went through one by one. But quite the opposite happened. The longer we went, the deeper it sunk in. I see you. I love you. I bless you. It changed the way we related to each other. 

                  I know this, but I often need a reminder. It is incredibly powerful to be prayed for, to blessed by another. 

                  That’s what Jesus is doing in the gospel reading this morning. It feels a little wordy and convoluted sometimes as we read it. But as Jesus prepares to leave his disciples, prepares for the pain and suffering ahead, prepares ultimately to send them out into challenging and dangerous ministry – he prays for them. He sees them. He loves them. He blesses them in this prayer. 

                  As people of faith we pray often for one another. We lift up those who are sick or grieving, those who are celebrating joys, those who are serving in harm’s way. We pray for our meetings and our ministry. We pray for our food and bless bread and wine every Sunday. All of that is good and faithful and absolutely deeply meant and felt. 

                  And, I know in my own life there are particular moments I can remember someone praying for me in a way that broke open my heart, that let me release myself into God’s hands in a visceral way that I hadn’t been able to do in that moment. It came at moments you might expect, when the chaplain prayed at my father’s bedside in his last days, in moments when I was deeply fearful about my own future. But also in unexpected moments when a prayer for the whole assembly was worded in just such a way that it touched something deep and made me begin to cry with relief. I felt seen, loved, and blessed. 

                  This is really what Jesus’ whole ministry has been about up to this moment. At the beginning of John’s gospel he sees the first of his disciples and calls them in to accompany him. From the beginning he sees something about them and their gifts, something about their openness to the journey ahead. And in calling them he invites them into that work. 

                  When Nicodemus comes at night, Jesus engages with him in deep theological conversation to match the energy he brings. When he encounters the Samaritan woman at the well he sees her in all her troubled history, speaks to her with compassion, and he blesses her with living water. Jesus sees the hungry crowds with compassion and in blessing bread and fish he blesses the people with an abundance they couldn’t have imagined. The man born blind is seen for who he is, loved, and blessed with healing. When Lazarus dies, Jesus sees the deep grief of his friends, meets them in their tears, and in calling him from the tomb, blesses all of them with new life. 

                  The way John tells stories we get the intimate details. There are fewer encounters recorded in this gospel, but we get a glimpse of the way that Jesus stops and engages with individuals in touch, dialogue, care, love, and healing. Jesus rarely just waves a hand to enact compassion and healing, but especially in John we see him taking time with each and every one he meets. 

                  So as he prays this prayer, it is in that context. He prays not just in broad sweeping words, not just for the world as a whole, or the future church at large, but with an urgency and depth of intention that comes from deeply seeing, knowing, and loving each of his followers. 

Jesus prays not just for unity because it’s a nice thing when everyone gets along, but because he cares deeply about everyone and wants all of his followers to live in the way that he has with that same deep love and compassion for others. Jesus prays for all his people, including us gathered here this morning. 

I don’t have an Ethiopian cross to show you or demonstrate looking at one another through the cross, but I will share my own practice as a presider at the eucharist. Every week when I hold forth the bread and wine during the eucharistic prayer I look out and see God’s people. For me it’s in a different congregation nearly every week. But I look, in a way through the bread and wine to see you, the gathered body of Christ. And there I see the way that God sees us, loves us, and blesses us into being the body of Christ for the world. 

When we receive at this table, it is yet another moment that God sees us, loves us, and blesses us. And then we are filled to go and be that for the world. We are invited to go out and see the world through God’s eyes. To see the world through the cross. To see the world in light of this meal we share where there is enough for all. 

Looking at the world through cross and with love will not solve the problems of the world. It will not erase the divisions, it will not end the wars, it will not erase hunger. But it may just change us and the people we get to bless along the way. I know that is work you do here as a congregation. I know you are committed to caring for God’s creation, to supporting your neighbors in need, to caring deeply for one another in so many ways. I see it in the caring ways you hold one another. 

In that hard work of being the body of Christ in the world, I invite us to hold that image of Jesus praying for us, remember that Jesus sees us for who we are, loves us more deeply than we can know, and blesses us for all that lies ahead. 

Alleluia! Christ is risen!
Christ is risen, indeed! Alleluia!

-Pastor Steven Wilco

From Fear to Flying

Clergy Conference – Episcopal Diocese of Western MA
May 12, 2026
Texts for Easter 7A

6 When [the apostles] had come together, they asked [Jesus], “Lord, is this the time when you will restore the kingdom to Israel?” 7 He replied, “It is not for you to know the times or periods that the Father has set by his own authority. 8 But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.” 9 When he had said this, as they were watching, he was lifted up, and a cloud took him out of their sight. 10 While he was going and they were gazing up toward heaven, suddenly two men in white robes stood by them. 11 They said, “Men of Galilee, why do you stand looking up toward heaven? This Jesus, who has been taken up from you into heaven, will come in the same way as you saw him go into heaven.”

  12 Then they returned to Jerusalem from the mount called Olivet, which is near Jerusalem, a Sabbath day’s journey away. 13 When they had entered the city, they went to the room upstairs where they were staying: Peter, and John, and James, and Andrew, Philip and Thomas, Bartholomew and Matthew, James son of Alphaeus, and Simon the Zealot, and Judas son of James. 14 All these were constantly devoting themselves to prayer, together with certain women, including Mary the mother of Jesus, as well as his brothers. – Acts 1:6-14

12 Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal that is taking place among you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice insofar as you are sharing Christ’s sufferings, so that you may also be glad and shout for joy when his glory is revealed. 14 If you are reviled for the name of Christ, you are blessed, because the spirit of glory, which is the Spirit of God, is resting on you.

  5:6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God, so that he may exalt you in due time. 7 Cast all your anxiety on him, because he cares for you. 8 Discipline yourselves; keep alert. Like a roaring lion your adversary the devil prowls around, looking for someone to devour. 9 Resist him, steadfast in your faith, for you know that your brothers and sisters in all the world are undergoing the same kinds of suffering. 10 And after you have suffered for a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, support, strengthen, and establish you. 11 To him be the power forever and ever. Amen. – 1 Peter 4-5, selected verses

                  Today we’re intentionally leaning ahead liturgically into the coming Ascensiontide, using the readings for this coming Sunday. This in-between period between Ascension and Pentecost always feels to me like this kind of pregnant pause, an in-between time but one very full of energy and possibility. A time of waiting, watching, praying, wondering. 

When I think about where the disciples have been with Jesus, they’ve been swept up in a wonderful period of ministry. A time when they grew, and a time when lives were changed and God’s love made real. Then they went through the events in Jerusalem – a time packed with events and changes – cosmos-changing level events – the death and resurrection of Jesus! Here they are, Jesus having ascended. But what is next hasn’t quite started yet. Waiting with a new kind of expectation. 

I don’t know about you, but I notice that might describe a little of where our diocese is right now. We’ve completed one season of fruitful, life changing ministry. And now over the last 18 months, a lot has happened. A lot of people in this room have worked even harder than usual to tell the story of our diocese, elect a bishop, welcome her to our midst, and then welcome the Holy Spirit to an incredible consecration. And…with all of that still fresh in our minds, we are still in a way leaning in to hear how we will grow in God’s mission…together. What’s next?? There’s excitement, maybe a little nervousness rooted in change and newness, and perhaps, even at moments, we are a little frozen to our own patterns of doing things. 

                  As I thought about this in between time – for the disciples and for us, I remembered the time that a friend in seminary convinced me to make a long-time wish a reality and took me skydiving. For the two weeks between making the decision to do it and the day it actually happened, I felt this kind of wild, nervous excitement. A kind of pit in my stomach, excited but not always really sure I had made a good decision. The day finally arrived and the nervous excitement continued, rapidly alternating between fear and exhilaration. I got what seemed to me too brief a period of instruction, strapped myself to an instructor I had just met, and boarded an airplane. Once the plane took off it really sank in – I wasn’t planning on still being on the plane when it landed. My nervous excitement turned to paralyzing fear. My body went rigid, and I was pretty sure I was going to chicken out. Once the door opened and people ahead of us began to jump out, I became pretty convinced I could not cross the 10 or so feet forward to the door. I suddenly decided I wanted to stay right there where I was. 

                  That’s the kind of tense waiting I imagine the disciples living into in that period of transition. Fear of the unknown and the real danger they were to encounter alternating with the sheer thrill of resurrection, and, perhaps at times an absolutely paralyzing fear. All of these alternating back and forth and sometimes all at once. I imagine their prayer not as calm, quiet, and pious, but as pacing, crying out, joyful, yearning, exhausted, hearts bursting with excitement – the whole range of emotions as they prayed together.  

                  Is that a little like where we are these days? I don’t want to overstate it, but I do think times of transition like the one we are still in are full of that incredible range of emotion, and sometimes, too, leave us frozen in our fear of the unknown. 

                  And really, isn’t that the ministry we participate in every day? There are always big events, big changes, if not in the life of our particular parish in this particular moment, then certainly in the world around us and in the lives of the people we minister to and minister with in our contexts. That comes with the recognition of the ministry that has gone before. It comes with fear, excitement, and readiness for what is to come.  And sometimes it comes with feeling a little adrift or stuck in the liminal space. 

                  Now, for us, even when we feel ourselves in the in-betweenness of Ascensiontide, we know the story of Pentecost that is just around the corner. We know our own experience of living out the mission of the church at the urging of the Holy Spirit. Peter’s words, though about our mission, echo maybe ominously in our ears. Do not be surprised at the fiery ordeal. Rejoice insofar as your are sharing Christ’s sufferings. After you have suffered a little while… 

                  It doesn’t exactly help with the paralyzing fear when we know that ministry gets messy. Human beings are imperfect. Ministry is hard at the best of times and we know that sometimes there are worse times – when buildings crumbling, when attendance or finances are down, when tragedy or conflict tears a community apart. We know there may be long days, and difficult nights. We know there’s always hard and challenging work ahead. If I were listening to Peter talk about this call to ministry, I’d probably stay just right where I was, rooted in fear. 

                  Peter and the early Christians faced some pretty brutal ordeals, to be sure. But I also think we might hear his words a little differently about what he means about ministry. Maybe the ordeal he is describing is a little more like skydiving. 

                  Back to the airplane…I don’t think I was dead weight, but the instructor definitely did the hard work of getting us to the door. One minute I was sitting on the edge feeling my feet touching the plane. The next minute, not having really had any sensation of falling, I became conscious that I was looking up at the plane I had just been on. My brain was having a hard time computing. It was only a split second, but I was staring up at the sky where I had come from, not unlike the disciples, mouths agape staring into clouds where Jesus has just disappeared.  

                  Like the messengers to the disciples, the instructor tapped me on the shoulder to remind me how to hold my body, and suddenly we were facing down to earth, the wind rushing at our faces. I had no option but to be in motion and the fear/excitement dynamic was back in full. It was absolutely exhilarating. And also pretty scary. 

                  But the movement, the rush, the focus required to maintain proper position, kept me from staying in the fear. And then, as the fear began to build again as the ground got closer, suddenly the parachute opened and we were drifting, gently. Still falling. Still moving. Still not safely on the ground. But there was more thrill than fear. 

                  And finally, as the ground became rather close and I could sense just how fast we were going, we prepared to land. It was bumpy but no bones were broken. While the fear was mostly gone, my head was still spinning with the rush of it all. 

                  I think a life of faith, and especially a life of ministry is a bit like all that. If we’re willing to put ourselves out there a bit, often with the gentle or not so gentle push of the Holy Spirit, incredible things can happen. 

                  And good ministry is rarely settled ministry. It’s ministry in motion. It’s ministry that doesn’t always know how it’s all going to work before things start moving. It’s ministry that comes with a kind of excitement and fear all mixed together. It can be quite a challenge. But it’s one that has a lot of possibility and thrill along the way. And when we start looking for God up there, God sends messengers to point us back down to the ground, where God is alive and active – present in bread and wine, present in one another, present in the poor and oppressed, present in the everydayness of our lives. 

                  So whatever challenge you are facing ahead, whatever in your own life or ministry or in our collective life together as a diocese is weighing you down and keeping you from moving forward, know that in baptism we’ve been strapped to the Holy Spirit and she’ll nudge us out in due time, tap us on the shoulder, and fly with us through the whole thing. The landing may sometimes be a little bumpy, but we’ll come out loved and held by God one way or another. 

And that Holy Spirit, she works in all kinds of ways. She works through bishops and priests and deacons, through lay people, through creation. So as we lean into this time together, look out for ways the Holy Spirit is nudging in our conversations together. Where is God inviting us next? Because, as we grow in God’s mission, we’re in this together, and I think it’s going to be a wonderful and wild ride. 

-Pastor Steven Wilco

The Long Journey Of Healing

4th Sunday in Lent
March 15, 2026
St. Mark’s/San Marcos, Worcester, MA

1 As [Jesus] walked along, he saw a man blind from birth. 2 His disciples asked him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?” 3 Jesus answered, “Neither this man nor his parents sinned; he was born blind so that God’s works might be revealed in him. 4 We must work the works of him who sent me while it is day; night is coming, when no one can work. 5 As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world.” 6 When he had said this, he spat on the ground and made mud with the saliva and spread the mud on the man’s eyes, 7 saying to him, “Go, wash in the pool of Siloam” (which means Sent). Then he went and washed and came back able to see. 8 The neighbors and those who had seen him before as a beggar began to ask, “Is this not the man who used to sit and beg?” 9 Some were saying, “It is he.” Others were saying, “No, but it is someone like him.” He kept saying, “I am he.” 10 But they kept asking him, “Then how were your eyes opened?” 11 He answered, “The man called Jesus made mud, spread it on my eyes, and said to me, ‘Go to Siloam and wash.’ Then I went and washed and received my sight.” 12 They said to him, “Where is he?” He said, “I do not know.”

  13 They brought to the Pharisees the man who had formerly been blind. 14 Now it was a Sabbath day when Jesus made the mud and opened his eyes. 15 Then the Pharisees also began to ask him how he had received his sight. He said to them, “He put mud on my eyes. Then I washed, and now I see.” 16 Some of the Pharisees said, “This man is not from God, for he does not observe the Sabbath.” Others said, “How can a man who is a sinner perform such signs?” And they were divided. 17 So they said again to the blind man, “What do you say about him? It was your eyes he opened.” He said, “He is a prophet.”
  18 The Jews did not believe that he had been blind and had received his sight until they called the parents of the man who had received his sight 19 and asked them, “Is this your son, who you say was born blind? How then does he now see?” 20 His parents answered, “We know that this is our son and that he was born blind, 21 but we do not know how it is that now he sees, nor do we know who opened his eyes. Ask him; he is of age. He will speak for himself.” 22 His parents said this because they were afraid of the Jews, for the Jews had already agreed that anyone who confessed Jesus to be the Messiah would be put out of the synagogue. 23 Therefore his parents said, “He is of age; ask him.”
  24 So for the second time they called the man who had been blind, and they said to him, “Give glory to God! We know that this man is a sinner.” 25 He answered, “I do not know whether he is a sinner. One thing I do know, that though I was blind, now I see.” 26 They said to him, “What did he do to you? How did he open your eyes?” 27 He answered them, “I have told you already, and you would not listen. Why do you want to hear it again? Do you also want to become his disciples?” 28 Then they reviled him, saying, “You are his disciple, but we are disciples of Moses. 29 We know that God has spoken to Moses, but as for this man, we do not know where he comes from.” 30 The man answered, “Here is an astonishing thing! You do not know where he comes from, yet he opened my eyes. 31 We know that God does not listen to sinners, but he does listen to one who worships him and obeys his will. 32 Never since the world began has it been heard that anyone opened the eyes of a person born blind. 33 If this man were not from God, he could do nothing.” 34 They answered him, “You were born entirely in sins, and are you trying to teach us?” And they drove him out.

  35 Jesus heard that they had driven him out, and when he found him he said, “Do you believe in the Son of Man?” 36 He answered, “And who is he, sir? Tell me, so that I may believe in him.” 37 Jesus said to him, “You have seen him, and the one speaking with you is he.” 38 He said, “Lord, I believe.” And he worshiped him. 39 Jesus said, “I came into this world for judgment, so that those who do not see may see and those who do see may become blind.” 40 Some of the Pharisees who were with him heard this and said to him, “Surely we are not blind, are we?” 41 Jesus said to them, “If you were blind, you would not have sin. But now that you say, ‘We see,’ your sin remains.” – John 9:1-41

                  I wish that healing always came quickly. 

                  In truth, it rarely comes quickly enough, and too often it comes not at all. 

                  I think about work that has been done at Reconciliation House in Webster, where others in our diocese created a place for healing from addiction. Some years ago, Rev. Ford and others created a space for men to live in community, supported through their recovery journey and away from situations that might have made it hard to continue their healing. 

                  Like so many other illnesses, addiction is not a one-time change. It’s a lifetime of healing not just physical effects and chemical addiction, but the deep work of reorienting one’s life and ones relationships. 

                  Today’s gospel reading is one that is a frequent favorite among those who have experienced addiction. Because his healing isn’t a one time change that fixes everything. In fact, at first it makes his life a whole lot more complicated. He gets what sounds like an uncomfortable treatment of mud on his eyes from Jesus, he washes in the Pool of Siloam, and now he can see. But that isn’t the end of the story. 

                  The Pharisees want to debate Jesus’s healing on the sabbath. The man himself doesn’t even really understand what has happened. He gives a kind of half-hearted answer when he is dragged in. Then man’s parents get called in. They don’t know much about what’s going on either. 

                  As the leaders begin to argue over top of him, he finds not only his sight but now also his voice. He speaks up: “I don’t know much about your argument, but that man healed my vision.” However, they can’t let allow that to stand. This healing has disrupted their sense of who is worthy and who isn’t. And they drive him out of town. 

                  Now he can see but he has lost his community all over again, because they could not accept his transformation. There – on the outskirts of human community, feeling lost, alone, and in need of a place to continue his healing in supportive community – there, Jesus meets him again. We don’t know exactly what happens later, but at least in that moment the man not only sees but is seen. He is made new, not just in his body but in his relationships and deep in his soul. 

                  I wonder – what kind of healing are you longing for? So many among us live with chronic health challenges. Every family has strained and broken relationships. Most of us know people who experience depression and anxiety. We are always longing for healing.

                  We are people whose whole world is in need of healing. We are at war again as a nation, another round of a conflict that has no easy answers and no quick solutions for peace. We live in a divided country where some people try to cast out others from the halls of power and wealth and who refuse even to give one another safe community in which to live. 

                  Our churches are struggling. We have an incredible gift in the presence of God with us, and yet: our buildings weigh us down; we wish for more people to experience the gifts we have and to share in our ministry; we get anxious and fearful about what comes next. Jesus has come and been among us, brought healing even! But often it feels as if the healing is incomplete. Like the man in the gospel reading we are still caught in the fray of messy human community. 

                  Jesus is with us, but healing is often so much slower than we’d like it to be. Even when we resolve some smaller challenge, hundreds more seem to await us. 

                  In this season of Lent we remember the ways we are broken people. Not just bodies that get sick, and age, and one day die. But also people whose relationships are imperfect, whose actions don’t always match intentions, whose hopes are not always realized. And we come together Sunday after Sunday to remember that Jesus comes to be among us. Here, now, in the midst of our unfinished healing. 

                  In Lent we are awaiting Easter, now just a few short weeks away. It will, I pray, be another glorious Easter for you here at St. Mark’s and for all people of faith celebrating around the world. But Easter will not solve the world’s problems. It will not, in most cases, bring healing to all the broken bits of our lives we carry in prayer day in and day out. It will not, unfortunately, bring peace to the world. It will not make doing ministry in our present context any easier. 

                  But maybe this Lent and this coming Easter, we can learn from this man who encounters Jesus and begins a long journey of healing. Perhaps this story invites us to look around and see God at work resurrecting the world in ways that feel imperfect and incomplete to us for now, but which might be signs for us of God’s all-powerful love pouring out daily for us, the ones God so dearly loves. 

                  I see it in places like Reconciliation House that provide a safe community for healing. I see it in the ways that you seek to build relationships with your community here at St. Mark’s. I see it in the ways we begin to work together across lines of race and language and parish and denomination. I see it in the ways that when a member of our community is ill or grieving that we surround that person and those families with food and companionship and prayer. 

                  Some days it all feels like not enough. I wish sometimes that God would swoop in and fix it all. But I do know we meet God here in this place and out there in the world. And that God is slowly opening our eyes to the resurrection that is already blooming here in our broken and hurting world until that day that God has promised when all things are made new. 

-Pastor Steven Wilco

Stay Salty

5th Sunday after Epiphany
February 8, 2025
St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church, Worcester, MA

1 Shout out; do not hold back!
  Lift up your voice like a trumpet!
 Announce to my people their rebellion,
  to the house of Jacob their sins.
2 Yet day after day they seek me
  and delight to know my ways,
 as if they were a nation that practiced righteousness
  and did not forsake the ordinance of their God;
 they ask of me righteous judgments;
  they want God on their side.
3 “Why do we fast, but you do not see?
  Why humble ourselves, but you do not notice?”
 Look, you serve your own interest on your fast day
  and oppress all your workers.
4 You fast only to quarrel and to fight
  and to strike with a wicked fist.
 Such fasting as you do today
  will not make your voice heard on high.
5 Is such the fast that I choose,
  a day to humble oneself?
 Is it to bow down the head like a bulrush
  and to lie in sackcloth and ashes?
 Will you call this a fast,
  a day acceptable to the Lord?

6 Is not this the fast that I choose:
  to loose the bonds of injustice,
  to undo the straps of the yoke,
 to let the oppressed go free,
  and to break every yoke?
7 Is it not to share your bread with the hungry
  and bring the homeless poor into your house;
 when you see the naked, to cover them
  and not to hide yourself from your own kin?
8 Then your light shall break forth like the dawn,
  and your healing shall spring up quickly;
 your vindicator shall go before you;
  the glory of the Lord shall be your rear guard.
9a Then you shall call, and the Lord will answer;
  you shall cry for help, and he will say, “Here I am.”

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9b If you remove the yoke from among you,
  the pointing of the finger, the speaking of evil,
10 if you offer your food to the hungry
  and satisfy the needs of the afflicted,
 then your light shall rise in the darkness
  and your gloom be like the noonday.
11 The Lord will guide you continually
  and satisfy your needs in parched places
  and make your bones strong,
 and you shall be like a watered garden,
  like a spring of water
  whose waters never fail.
12 Your ancient ruins shall be rebuilt;
  you shall raise up the foundations of many generations;
 you shall be called the repairer of the breach,
  the restorer of streets to live in. – Isaiah 58:1-12

[Jesus said:] 13 “You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste, how can its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything but is thrown out and trampled under foot.
  14 “You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill cannot be hid. 15 People do not light a lamp and put it under the bushel basket; rather, they put it on the lampstand, and it gives light to all in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.

  17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have come not to abolish but to fulfill. 18 For truly I tell you, until heaven and earth pass away, not one letter, not one stroke of a letter, will pass from the law until all is accomplished. 19 Therefore, whoever breaks one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever does them and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. 20 For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” – Matthew 5:13-20

                  I know that here at St. Matthew’s, one of the things you do really well is feed people. As such, I’m sure at least some of the key leaders have had to have some training in food safety. You’ve had to think about how to keep surfaces clean, cook food thoroughly, keep cold food cold and hot food hot and make sure that you aren’t accidentally doing any harm in your good efforts. We all know what happens when food spoils. It looks bad, smells bad, and tastes bad. It goes bad when certain kinds of bacteria are able to multiply to unhealthy degrees. Don’t worry, this is not a food safety lecture, I’m going to bring this around to a theological point. 

                  Here in the 21st century, we have refrigerators – like yours outside ready to serve perishable food to people who need it. We have handwashing protocols and plastic gloves, cleaning spray and high-heat dish sanitizers. But in the ancient world, their resources were more limited. To keep food from spoiling before widespread refrigeration, one of the primary methods was salt. It dries out the food and makes it hard for bacteria to grow. It provided not only essential flavor as it’s most commonly known for today, but allows people to preserve food that might otherwise go bad.

                  When Jesus says, “you are the salt of the earth,” I’ll bet he’s saying more than just that we are nice to have around, but that we play a central role in the life of our communities. 

                  Because, sometimes our communities can spoil, too. We know when things are off in our community and in our world. We know when things are starting to turn. 

                  Our communities go bad when we fail to communicate well with each other. This, of course, happens in churches as much as any other community – times of disagreement and conflict. It happens in our families and friendships. Our communities go bad when we are torn apart by death, by fear, or by grief. 

Our communities go bad when we do violence to one another. When people go hungry. When economic inequality abounds. When we allow some people to have access and others not. Our communities go bad when we single out some people who deserve to be present and others who deserve to be excluded. When we set up some groups of people as enemies. When we try to remove some parts of our community that we don’t like or who are different from others. 

                  In our first reading today, Isaiah shares God’s righteous anger at a community that has spoiled. They have let homelessness and hunger abound, they oppress their workers, they quarrel and fight and sometimes use physical violence. And that’s just the temple-going folk that Isaiah is speaking to! The community has gone bad. How can it be restored? When salt isn’t salty anymore, how can you get it back? 

                  That’s the central question, isn’t it? How do we fix a broken community, one which we ourselves have both sought to serve and help, but which we have also helped to create?

When the world is so utterly broken, how can it be restored to God’s vision of reality again? If salt isn’t salty anymore? What can be done?

You. YOU are the salt of the earth. You disciples, You crowd who have come to listen at Jesus’ feet, you people of St. Matthew’s. All of us people of faith. All of human family. You are the salt of the earth. 

The fascinating thing about what Jesus says here is that he doesn’t chide people into being better. He doesn’t proscribe a plan for them to improve themselves or add more community service hours. He just proclaims that they’re salt. That’s who you are. That’s who you’re created to be. And this world needs you to be you in order for it to work. 

I sort of imagine God up there as a preparer of food, and to preserve the community, to restore wholeness, God uses what God has – you and me, ordinary people, with ordinary gifts and ordinary faults. To salt the community. God uses us to be the agents that help restore the community. 

It’s nothing new – it’s the same thing Isaiah is calling the people to on God’s behalf. “Sit up! Pay attention!” Isaiah says – loose the bonds of injustice, share your food with the hungry, share your home with those who need shelter of a roof or the shelter of a loving family. That’s who you were created to be! 

I know that sometimes I live up to that and sometimes I don’t. I don’t always know what to do with that. When salt isn’t salty, when we fail to live up to our calling as the people God made us to be, what then? 

I sort of take Jesus’ line in the gospel reading two ways at the same time. On the one hand I hear it as God’s exasperation that despite centuries of reminders to live in right relationship we still manage to mess it up and forget who we are. And that’s the nudge to engage again, to mend, to heal, to reconsider what it is we have to share. To keep doing all the things you’re doing here at St. Matthew’s – feeding the community, caring for one another, proclaiming good news week in and week out. 

And at the very same time, I hear God’s promise that either way we’re still God’s beloved children, the very thing God chooses to use to bring wholeness to the community. You’re salt. You can’t be anything else. That’s just who you are – beloved and gifted children of God sprinkled out into the world to enhance the flavor and keep our communities from spoiling. 

For now, that doesn’t always feel like enough. The need seems more than we can meet. The injustice seems more than we can stand up against. And yet God comes into our midst, not even in one sense to do something new, but to bring to fulfillment the call and the promise that have been from the beginning. God made the world to be in right relationship, and gifted us with the law and the prophets and the call of Jesus to draw us back to that when the community starts to spoil, when our own hearts start to lose their saltiness. 

But even with all the ways we manage to mess things up, God just keeps entering our world and promises one way or another the final restoration of wholeness. God promises that the world will again be a place of peace, a place where every human being feels at home, a place where neighbors help one another and support one another, a place where all creation can thrive together. 

Until that happens, take comfort in Jesus’ words that you are the salt of the earth. You are God’s beloved, chosen and sent to a world in need. You are God’s means of preserving our fragile common life. Stay salty! 

-Pastor Steven Wilco

#Blessed

4th Sunday after Epiphany (Year A)
February 1, 2026
St. Phillip’s Episcopal Church, Easthampton, MA

 Are you blessed?

                  I mean, do you feel blessed?

                  Have you ever posted to social media about some positive development in your life and used #blessed? 

                  Do you have a throw-pillow embroidered with the word or a fancy calligraphed piece of artwork that says how blessed you are? 

                  Because that’s what a lot of people mean when they use the word. A lot of times it gets thrown around as a word to name gratitude. Certainly a good thing – noticing, giving voice to our gratitude for life and love and good things. But blessed sometimes has this connotation of God given. As in, God made this good thing happen, therefore I am blessed. Again, I don’t mean to knock it – noticing with gratitude and giving thanks to God for it is a beautiful spiritual practice. 

                  The challenge comes when we feel #notsoblessed. It doesn’t negate the feeling of the good things, the gratitude. But it’s easy to start to question God’s presence when things aren’t going as planned. What exactly is Jesus talking about? 

                  When we read this famous passage of blessing, the beatitudes, often we take it as some kind of call to become Mother Teresa. Again, we could use a little more Mother Teresa energy in our world, no doubt. But it’s also pretty unattainable.

                  Or we take the passage as a call to be nice. The poor in spirit, the meek, the mourning, the ones thirsting for righteousness, the merciful, and so on – we too often picture calm, gentle, keeping the peace. A dear friend and colleague of mine likes to say that the church is afflicted by “nice,” meaning we’re better at pretending everything is calm and peaceful in order to avoid doing hard things. 

                  So, what does it mean, then, that Jesus more or less begins his public-facing ministry in Matthew’s gospel with these words? This is Jesus’ campaign launch, setting his agenda, describing who he is and what he’s about. 

`               He begins not with a declaration of strength, or power, or glory. It is not a declaration against others, against an ideology, against anything.It’s a declaration of blessing. And not a blessing on the victors but on the forgotten, the ignored, the despised, the rejected. It’s blessing where one does not expect it. It is blessing in places that are not usually #blessed. It is blessing for those who are longing and hurting, weeping and sighing. 

                  And it isn’t abstract for Jesus. This is a declaration of what his ministry will be about. He is about to spend the next three years healing the broken, eating with sinners and outcasts, touching lepers, engaging the oppressive authorities, living without a place to go home to. He’s about to put his life on the line not just so that he can inherit the earth with the meek but such that all creation is restored to itself. This is not just a list of nice things we should try to go and be, this is a list of exactly where Jesus plans to be – despised and persecuted. This is a list of where we, in our world today, will find God. 

                  I think one of the challenges for us is to figure out who in our modern world today are the people Jesus is proclaiming blessed. Lutheran pastor Nadia Bolz-Weber has a well-known list of modern day beatitudes from which I draw here with some of my own updating and editing. 

                  Blessed are the agnostics and those who have doubt, those who aren’t sure and so can still be surprised. 

                  Blessed are those who have nothing to offer and whose need can feel overwhelming to themselves and to those around them. 

                  Blessed are the preschoolers who cut in line at communion and who sing the hymns too vigorously. 

                  Blessed are they for whom death is not an abstraction, whose tears could fill an ocean.

                  Blessed are the incarcerated, the tear-gassed, the deported, and the beaten. 

                  Blessed are they who feel they cannot fall apart because they are keeping it together for everyone else. 

                  Blessed are the unnoticed, the forgotten, the lonely, and those forced into hiding. 

Blessed are the children who eat alone at the lunch table, the youth who stand between the bullies and the bullied.

                  Blessed are those without documentation and those without an advocate in a broken system. 

                  Blessed are those who stand between the oppressed and the oppressor.

                  Blessed is everyone who has forgiven us when we haven’t deserved it.  

                  And that is just the beginning. Just the beginning of God’s blessing that which we forget to bless. Just the beginning of where we will find the strength and joy and comfort and love of God’s presence in our world. Just the beginning of where God will show up in us and our lives and our ministry. This word of blessing is just the beginning of all Jesus will do in his life and all Jesus will do in ours. 

                  There is blessing not just because of what God promises in the blessing, but because it is in those very places that we will find Jesus. Blessed because there we are in the presence of God.

                  Dear ones of St. Philip’s, I dare say Jesus today blesses churches that have moved from just trying to survive to celebrating their thriving. Blessed are churches that don’t have a budget as big as they might want and do ministry anyway. Blessed are churches that feed the vulnerable with take and eat meals. Blessed are churches that pray and sing and speak God’s love for this aching world week after week. 

                  It doesn’t always feel #blessed. Maybe sometimes it does. I hope sometimes it does. But it is always where we find Jesus. But I have a warning for you. Living in the places we find Jesus is not safe. To live in these spaces, to put ourselves not with the powerful of our world, to stand with the vulnerable, to actually do the things that might bring about a just peace in this world? Well…in the words of Paul, it’s foolishness. 

                  It will likely get you nowhere in terms of how the world measures success. Doing justice, loving mercy, and walking with God in these ways is not guaranteed to increase your average Sunday attendance or your parochial report revenues. It will not likely gain you riches or fame or power over others. Sometimes, like Jesus and like so many others who put themselves between the powerful and the vulnerable, it will get us killed. That’s the foolishness of the cross. It’s the foolishness of believing what Jesus says about where we find real blessing. It’s the foolishness of God’s abundant mercy for me, for you, for the neighbors we love so dearly, and for the ones we hate with a passion. 

                  This world right now needs to know the presence of Christ in these beautiful and powerful and blessed ways. And that is what we are doing here today, doing here every Sunday. We are becoming again the body of Christ, blessed and broken for the sake of the world. We are feasting together in order to remember the presence of God in us, so that we are ready to go again into a world who calls this radical love foolishness. But we remember, that wherever we go from here, God calls that radical love blessed. And, that no matter what, God proclaims you blessed, in your life today, tomorrow, and the next day, in your life in joy and sorrow, in your life when you walk the way of justice and when you feel the weight of the broken world. Dear ones, blessed are YOU.    

-Pastor Steven Wilco

The Voice That Creates

Baptism of Our Lord (Year A)
Sunday, January 11, 2026
All Saints, South Hadley, MA

1 Ascribe to the Lord, you gods, *
ascribe to the Lord glory and strength.
2 Ascribe to the Lord the glory due his Name; *
worship the Lord in the beauty of holiness.
3 The voice of the Lord is upon the waters;
the God of glory thunders; *
the Lord is upon the mighty waters.
4 The voice of the Lord is a powerful voice; *
the voice of the Lord is a voice of splendor.
5 The voice of the Lord breaks the cedar trees; *
the Lord breaks the cedars of Lebanon;
6 He makes Lebanon skip like a calf, *
and Mount Hermon like a young wild ox.
7 The voice of the Lord splits the flames of fire;
the voice of the Lord shakes the wilderness; *
the Lord shakes the wilderness of Kadesh.
8 The voice of the Lord makes the oak trees writhe *
and strips the forests bare.
9 And in the temple of the Lord *
all are crying, “Glory!”
10 The Lord sits enthroned above the flood; *
the Lord sits enthroned as King for evermore.
11 The Lord shall give strength to his people; *
the Lord shall give his people the blessing of peace. – Psalm 29

Jesus came from Galilee to John at the Jordan, to be baptized by him. John would have prevented him, saying, “I need to be baptized by you, and do you come to me?” But Jesus answered him, “Let it be so now; for it is proper for us in this way to fulfill all righteousness.” Then he consented. And when Jesus had been baptized, just as he came up from the water, suddenly the heavens were opened to him and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him. And a voice from heaven said, “This is my Son, the Beloved, with whom I am well pleased.” – Matthew 3:13-17

                  The old saying goes, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.”

                  Well, sorry if this bursts anyone’s bubble, but despite the good intentions behind its use, I think that saying is nonsense. We all know that words can and do hurt. They can, certainly, also heal. But at least according to one study it takes 4 positive comments to overcome one negative comment. Anyone who’s ever felt a deep gut punch at harsh words or felt their body shake in a tense verbal conflict knows that words create physical realities. 

                  That’s the language the Bible uses to talk about the very creation of the world. God spoke and it came to be. God’s voice, God’s words, shaped oceans and mountains, fish, birds, and creeping things. God’s words, at least according to the first poem of creation in Genesis, created human beings. 

                  In today’s psalm God’s voice breaks the cedars of Lebanon, splits the flames of fire, shakes the wilderness, and strips the forests bare. Just words, one might say. Just a bit of speech, sound waves the bounce around. But they have immense power to create new realities.              

                  Most acts of violence start with words. It’s well documented that oppressive regimes and the genocide of peoples most often begins with a shift in the ways we talk about each other. Speech that subtly, at first, dehumanizes some person or group of people. Speech that becomes gradually more aggressive, more violent. Speech that makes some uncomfortable, but which takes over gradually enough that the backlash is too little too late. Speech that sooner or later justifies physical violence, and which has already done violence without lifting a finger. 

                  It’s how all manner of painful and violent things begin on a smaller scale. A relationship deteriorates when the communication becomes contemptuous. Skirting ethical boundaries often begins with a little voice of justification from within. We begin to doubt ourselves when some voice we’ve internalized tells us we’re not good enough. Words make things happen in the world. 

                  The voice of God is a powerful voice, the voice of God is a voice of splendor. 

                  God uses God’s voice for all manner of things. To create the world. To call people to a particular ministry. To liberate God’s people. To shake the earth, whether that’s in sheer glory or in the rumble of transformation and judgment, it isn’t always clear. 

                  And God does something else with God’s voice that is, maybe one could argue, the most powerful thing God does with God’s voice: God names things beloved. The earth-shaking, fire-splitting voice of God tears open the heavens and speaks: “This is my beloved one with whom I am well-pleased.”

                  God proclaims these words about Jesus at his baptism. Each gospel phrases it just a little differently – in Matthew’s gospel we read today is framed as a proclamation to everyone, clarity about Jesus’ identity for all to hear and know. But God could say a lot of things in this moment. This is my Son, the powerful. This is my Son, the wise. This is my son, the perfect one. This is after all in the context of John’s baptism of repentance calling people to right behavior and right relationship. But of all the things the voice of God could speak into being in that moment, God speaks belovedness. 

                  While Jesus’ baptism is clearly a unique event, it is also a huge part of the basis for our own baptismal practice. In this world that claims God’s voice to do and say all manner of things, when we baptize God’s voice says to the new child of God, “You are my child, my beloved, with you I am well-pleased.”

                  What does it sound like, what does it feel like when the voice that created the heavens and the earth speaks to you with love and tender care? I won’t presume that God always uses and audible voice to say it. But I have known moments that I’ve heard it deep in my bones. Or more accurately deep in my gut. There have been moments for me that God’s voice has cut through all the other loud voices around me and within me to make those words known. You are my beloved.     

                  And I know that whether you’ve had those moments of recognition in your life or not, whether you’ve heard that voice in your life or not, that God is speaking that to you over and over, desperate for you to know deep in your being the profound, earth-shaking love that God has for you. 

                  And, like it did for Jesus, that incredible love spoken at baptism comes with a call. God’s voice can and does speak wherever and however God needs it to. Later in the gospels comes the line, “If these are silent, even the stones will cry out.” God speaks in nature, in scripture, in bread and wine, in water. And God chooses to speak through us. 

                  That powerful, earth-shaking voice resonates through us and through our words and our actions. Our neighbors in the UCC use the slogan, God is still speaking. I believe that. God’s belovedness speaks into being a reality for us that opens our hearts and minds and mouths to share that with the world. 

                  They say that just one affirming person in a mentoring role can often keep a young person who identifies within the LGBTQIA+ spectrum alive long enough to find their community even if others around them condemn them. That’s the power of God’s voice speaking belovedness. 

                  We live in society that fails to fully welcome the stranger and the foreigner. Whatever policies we support or hopes we have for us as a country, we are called to speak the reminder that all human beings are beloved of God. Everyone is worthy of life, shelter, food, and community. We are called as God’s people to echo that message of belovedness and work against even the more subtle ways that some of God’s children are dehumanized in our communities. 

                  We have a call daily to speak that belovedness in our words and actions with those around us – our families, our colleagues and classmates, people we don’t yet know that we encounter out in the world. We bear the weight of so much happening in the world and in our lives that it can be more challenging than it seems it should be to speak and act with that recognition. But when we hear God’s care for us cut through all that, it cannot help but spill out beyond us into the world around us. 

                  Friends here at All Saints, you’ve been used to one primary voice speaking to you from this pulpit for many years, calling you back to this truth. I know that Rev. Wallace made space for lots of people to share their voice, to be instruments of God’s speaking love into this hurting world. But she was present to lead you, remind you, walk with you in that work. Now you enter a time of transition. In the midst of grief at her leaving, God’s reminds you – you are beloved. In the midst of figuring out what is next, God reminds you – you are beloved. Now and in all the ministry that is still ahead for you here at All Saints, God echoes through you to the community and to the world that message that all God’s children are beloved. 

                  Wherever and however you hear that voice and feel its power, know that if it’s God’s voice it comes with this undeniable truth that you are God’s beloved. It may come alongside other truths that are hard for us to hear. It may come alongside a call to something that is harder than we think we can manage. It may be hard to decipher at times in the midst of so many other voices. But hear it now, today, for you: You are God’s beloved child, in you God is well-pleased. 

-Pastor Steven Wilco

Honoring God’s Body

2nd Sunday of Christmas
January 4, 2026
St. John’s Episcopal Church, Millville, MA

  1 In the time of King Herod, after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea, magi from the east came to Jerusalem, 2 asking, “Where is the child who has been born king of the Jews? For we observed his star in the east and have come to pay him homage.” 3 When King Herod heard this, he was frightened, and all Jerusalem with him, 4 and calling together all the chief priests and scribes of the people, he inquired of them where the Messiah was to be born. 5 They told him, “In Bethlehem of Judea, for so it has been written by the prophet:
6 ‘And you, Bethlehem, in the land of Judah,
  are by no means least among the rulers of Judah,
 for from you shall come a ruler
  who is to shepherd my people Israel.’ ”
  7 Then Herod secretly called for the magi and learned from them the exact time when the star had appeared. 8 Then he sent them to Bethlehem, saying, “Go and search diligently for the child, and when you have found him, bring me word so that I may also go and pay him homage.” 9 When they had heard the king, they set out, and there, ahead of them, went the star that they had seen in the east, until it stopped over the place where the child was. 10 When they saw that the star had stopped, they were overwhelmed with joy. 11 On entering the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they knelt down and paid him homage. Then, opening their treasure chests, they offered him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. 12 And having been warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they left for their own country by another road.

  13 Now after they had left, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, “Get up, take the child and his mother, and flee to Egypt, and remain there until I tell you, for Herod is about to search for the child, to destroy him.” 14 Then Joseph got up, took the child and his mother by night, and went to Egypt 15 and remained there until the death of Herod. This was to fulfill what had been spoken by the Lord through the prophet, “Out of Egypt I have called my son.”

  16 When Herod saw that he had been tricked by the magi, he was infuriated, and he sent and killed all the children in and around Bethlehem who were two years old or under, according to the time that he had learned from the magi. 17 Then what had been spoken through the prophet Jeremiah was fulfilled:
18 “A voice was heard in Ramah,
  wailing and loud lamentation,
 Rachel weeping for her children;
  she refused to be consoled, because they are no more.” – Matthew 2:1-18

                  How does the beloved Christmas story, filled with angel song, a shining star, and rejoicing so quickly take a turn? How is it that the gift of God to the world becomes the trigger for a murderous rampage by king Herod? Where is God in all this?         

                  Valid questions, all of them. And ones I don’t fully have answers to. But I will say that it has something to do with King Herod and his tendency to use people rather than seeing people for beautiful people who bear in themselves the very image of God. 

                  That’s the only way that kind of violence, whether on a large scale or small one, comes into being – when we fail to recognize the humanity of another. I’ll presume that none of us here are seeking to be like Herod. He’s clearly the bad guy here. As soon as the magi appear, the scheming begins and the visitors and officials become pawns in his game. He wants to eliminate the threat to his power, to the tiny thread of power to which he is clinging. He is a small town pawn of the much bigger Roman empire, using his power mostly to oppress his neighbors. I think it’s fair to say that his ego outstrips his actual power. It’s a sign of how fragile his hold on power is that a tiny infant threatens him. 

                  When he realizes he’s been tricked by the magi, and he can’t directly eliminate this threat, he issues an absurd command. He seeks to eliminate all the little ones of the region. To him those innocent ones and their families who will grieve for the rest of their lives are just more pawns. They are already less than human in Herod’s mind. To issue this terrible decree is to have already deemed some people less than worthy of their existence. 

                  Jesus and his family, thanks to the angelic messenger and Joseph’s listening, escape. But so many are not so fortunate. So many others are forever harmed by this act of violence. 

                  We know all too well that acts of violence still plague our world. There are plenty of Herods out there using violence to cling to power. Herods who dehumanize whole swaths of people. But it’s not just international headlines. We don’t have to issue genocidal decrees to devalue other human beings. 

                  I don’t know about you, but all too often I judge others and deem them less than for one reason or another. I one hundred percent believe that every human being is made is God’s image, and put me on the highway behind someone going below the speed limit in the left-hand lane, and my belief fails to go into practice. 

                  Road rage aside, there are a lot more poignant moments in our daily interactions where we fail to recognize the humanity of others. How often have I met someone and made a quick judgment based on appearances? How often have I discredited someone because of some detail in their background? How often have I been barely courteous to service employees because I was caught up in my own busyness? How often have I bypassed someone in need because I didn’t feel I had the time or energy to help? How often have I played into the deep political divisions in our country and judged someone who thinks differently, even when that person is someone near and dear to my heart? 

                  In case you’re wondering, these are rhetorical questions. I haven’t been keeping an actual tally, and if I had, I’d probably be embarrassed to share it this publicly. I don’t want to give you the impression I’m a terrible person, but I know I’m far from perfect. And I suspect you resonated some with at least a few of those, or something similar. The thing is that we often fail to recognize the humanity of others. When we are in conflict, when we feel threatened, when we are ourselves hurting and broken, we tend to demonize others or at least dismiss them. We may not by King Herod, but we contribute in little ways to the kind of dehumanization that ultimately leads to such terrible actions. 

                  It’s into this human mess that God is born. God’s response to our inhumanity is to take on humanness, to take on flesh, to dwell among us. God’s response to our tearing one another down and tearing the world apart, is to be a human among us. That’s what Christmas celebrates. God’s choosing not just to take on the frailty of a human body, of an infant completely dependent on human parents, but to take on flesh in the midst of a world that fails to honor the basic dignity of others. 

                  In doing so, God reminds us in the most profound way I can imagine, that every body is holy, that every human life is worthy, that every human being is precious and loved by God. Like the magi we come to this place seeking Christ, seeking a mystery beyond our imagining. Whatever has drawn us here, we meet Christ, embodied in bread and wine, embodied in word and prayer and song. Perhaps most importantly we meet Christ embodied in one another, gathered together to worship and live in faithful community together. Like the Magi, that encounter changes us. It invites us to journey back into the world by a different way. 

                  The encounter here with Christ invites us to go back into the world seeking out the humanity in others. When we respond to the call to serve others, we can do that in a way that is transactional and reinforcing of the divisions between haves and have-nots or we can lean into a more relational opportunity. Rather than just offering things to others, we can find appropriate ways to connect and humanize each other. The inequities that divide us dehumanize both those who have and those who don’t. I have challenged myself even in encounters where I am not able to offer help to those who ask, to engage with them as a human. 

                  When we enter into conversations that become tense or conflicted, we can pause and remember that whatever the disagreement, however vitally important, we can be grateful that the person before us exists, that the person is a human worthy of love. It does not solve our problems, and there are big consequences to some of the disagreements we experience. But we can always affirm the other person’s full humanity.                   

                  I strive to do this. Sometimes, I am successful. When I manage to do this, I’ve learned it is utterly transformative for me. That recognition of the humanity of another, especially someone with whom I disagree, helps me reorient myself and broaden my experience not just of the world but of who God is. In some ways that’s the move we are making this week from the season of Christmas to the season after Epiphany. It is the move from encounter with Christ to the broadening of that message for the nations. 

                  Despite our best efforts, though, we all sometimes fail at this. When that happens we will need to seek forgiveness. We will need to try again. We will need to make repairs to our neighbors and our communities. But God will not abandon us. God will be born in our midst again and again and again. God will continue to show up in our lives embodied in the world around us, embodied especially in the people we encounter. And in doing so God will continue redeeming us and all the world. Amen. 

-Pastor Steven Wilco

Christmas is For YOU

Christmas Eve 2025
Christ Memorial Episcopal Church, North Brookfield

2 The people who walked in darkness
  have seen a great light;
 those who lived in a land of deep darkness—
  on them light has shined.
3 You have multiplied exultation;
  you have increased its joy;
 they rejoice before you
  as with joy at the harvest,
  as people exult when dividing plunder.
4 For the yoke of their burden
  and the bar across their shoulders,
  the rod of their oppressor,
  you have broken as on the day of Midian.
5 For all the boots of the tramping warriors
  and all the garments rolled in blood
  shall be burned as fuel for the fire.
6 For a child has been born for us,
  a son given to us;
 authority rests upon his shoulders,
  and he is named
 Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
  Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
7 Great will be his authority,
  and there shall be endless peace
 for the throne of David and his kingdom.
  He will establish and uphold it
 with justice and with righteousness
  from this time onward and forevermore.
 The zeal of the Lord of hosts will do this. – Isaiah 9:2-7

1 In those days a decree went out from Caesar Augustus that all the world should be registered. 2 This was the first registration and was taken while Quirinius was governor of Syria. 3 All went to their own towns to be registered. 4 Joseph also went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to the city of David called Bethlehem, because he was descended from the house and family of David. 5 He went to be registered with Mary, to whom he was engaged and who was expecting a child. 6 While they were there, the time came for her to deliver her child. 7 And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in bands of cloth and laid him in a manger, because there was no place in the guest room.

 8 Now in that same region there were shepherds living in the fields, keeping watch over their flock by night. 9 Then an angel of the Lord stood before them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for see, I am bringing you good news of great joy for all the people: 11 to you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, who is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign for you: you will find a child wrapped in bands of cloth and lying in a manger.” 13 And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of the heavenly host, praising God and saying,
14 “Glory to God in the highest heaven,
  and on earth peace among those whom he favors!”
  15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let us go now to Bethlehem and see this thing that has taken place, which the Lord has made known to us.” 16 So they went with haste and found Mary and Joseph and the child lying in the manger. 17 When they saw this, they made known what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds told them, 19 and Mary treasured all these words and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen, just as it had been told them. -Luke 2:1-20

I had lots of Christmas-time traditions growing up, but one that was often sort of in the background but often present, was the music of Handel’s Messiah. Though it was originally composed with Easter in mind, the arc of that narrative begins with incarnation. Over time it found a place in the Christmas repertoire. And the only real line I remember with distinction from hearing it in childhood was the part that sets to music the lines we read tonight from the prophet Isaiah: 

“For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be call-ed: Wonderful Counsellor, The Mighty God, The Everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace!”

I loved the way the music proclaimed those names for God. Jesus may have come as an infant, but he would know how to walk with us, support strong civil authority and justice, rule with might forever, and, perhaps most importantly, bring peace. 

These are words we long to hear just as Isaiah’s first listeners did. They were in a time of political upheaval. There was turmoil among their own people and threats their small Hebrew community would be overthrown by mightier armies. They were questioning God’s presence and the future of their faith community, their ability to be free to practice their faith. And as there is in every age, there was injustice, fear, illness, and death. They longed for the promised messiah. 

The same is true of the beloved Christmas story itself. Luke’s gospel sets the birth of Jesus in the context of empire. Once again, the Hebrew people are facing oppression from rulers and empires bigger than they are. They are wrestling with what it means to live their faith in the midst of big questions and daily challenges. The town of Bethlehem is overflowing with guests. Mary and Joseph can’t even find a welcoming place to lay their heads. The birth of the Christ child happens among the animals, unnoticed by almost everyone. Even the shepherds would have been unaware had the heavenly chorus not shown up to alert them. It always strikes me reading the story that almost everyone in the world missed the birth of Jesus. Longing as they must have been for the prince of peace to transform their lives and the world, they missed the important moment.

Perhaps you feel that way, too. The violence in our world cries out for peace. The injustice in our world longs for a reorientation. Our hearts broken by grief long for comfort, for new life. Most of our days, and perhaps especially at this time of year, our calendars get full, our lives are busy, the next urgent thing calls our attention until we are too exhausted to rest. 

In the midst of all that I return to the words of Isaiah. Reading those lines again this week, I was struck by the little words the music doesn’t really emphasize that much, the little words that easily get lost as we focus on the mighty God and prince of peace. To us. To us a child is born. To us a son is given. 

Tonight you have come to this space, in the midst of all that is going on in the world, in all that is going on in your own lives. To meet again the one who comes for you. For us. 

Even here it can be easy to miss. We sing the beloved carols, we read the familiar story, and we know how it all turns out. We know that Handel’s messiah rolls on to tell the story of Jesus’ death and resurrection for the life of the world. We confess as much in the creeds. Even if we feel in deep in our hearts this night, we are tempted to quickly roll on to the next thing, the next celebration, the next task that needs our attention. 

But here tonight, hear again those little words. The holy one comes to you. For you. Christ comes into this world where empires rage and violence abounds. Christ comes to this country, divided and hurting. Christ comes into this busy season. Christ comes to this congregation seeking to be faithful in this time and place. Christ comes to our lives, with all their joy and sorrow and pain and surprises. Christ comes…to you

Much of the time I suspect we are like the multitudes on that first Christmas Eve, and we miss entirely that God has entered the world anew, and miss that the presence of God is slowly growing in our midst toward the cross of Good Friday and that Handel-worthy Hallelujah chorus of Easter. Sometimes, like the shepherds, we get a wonderful sign that points us to the in-breaking of God to our world. But even when we miss it, as we often do, God is still present in this world, not just in a generic way but for each and every one of us. 

Tonight we gather, of course to sing the familiar carols, to hear the familiar story, but also to receive the embodied presence of Christ. You all invited me months ago to be here with you for Christmas Eve because it has been several Christmas Eves now that you have been without a priest for Eucharist. And of course God is just as present when we are unable to celebrate at the table together. But there is a way in which that holy encounter at the table is an opportunity to come before God in a particular way.

Like many others, when I teach first communion to younger kids – and sometimes with adults too! – I help them prepare for receiving communion by suggesting that they put their hands out together like this and to think of it like making a manger with their hands to receive Jesus. For it is Christ’s very body we welcome and hold in the bread and wine, it is Christ we welcome into our hearts and our bodies. In my own Lutheran tradition the typical words we say when we share communion are different: instead of “The body of Christ, the bread of heaven. The blood of Christ, the cup of salvation,” we say “The body of Christ given for you. The blood of Christ shed for you.” Tonight Christ is here for you. 

I invite you tonight, in the midst of joy-filled carols that ring out with the heavenly chorus, in the midst of the familiar story, in the midst of our complicated, messy, broken lives, in the midst of broken systems that perpetuate injustice and violence, to pause and remember that this night, and every night, the wonderful counselor, the mighty God, the everlasting parent, the prince of peace comes here and now for you. 

-Pastor Steven Wilco

Asking About Resurrection

22nd Sunday after Pentecost
November 9, 2025
Zion Lutheran, Oxford & Reconciliation Episcopal, Webster

          Anyone who knows me just a little bit knows that I’m a planner, and organizer, a type-A personality. I have a plan A, B, and C, knowing what I’ll do if things don’t go the way I expect. When I go on vacation there are spreadsheets involved in planning. If you know anything about the Enneagram personality type system, I’m a 5, one of my core drivers is to get information, and the belief that if I just had all the information I could fix all the things. I want to understand how things work and how to make a system that maximizes benefit for everyone. Like any personality traits, this is both a strength and a weakness.      

            But I share it with you because it makes me a little sympathetic to the Sadducees. They have taken in the information they have available to them and they’ve come to seriously question that an afterlife is possible. Their question is meant, I’m sure, to trap Jesus. But I think it also comes from their own deep desire to understand – if God’s going to resurrect people, how will this really work? I mean, it’s pretty implausible when you think about it. 

            The scenario they choose highlights a vulnerable woman. Someone acquainted with tragedy and grief. Someone who through social norms was likely on the margins. They create a hypothetical not out of care and concern for the subject of their story but in order to prove a point. These are men in power who are using the plight of a vulnerable woman to argue a point. That’s not to say they didn’t also in their faith make meaningful acts of charity and support the vulnerable. But not unlike in our own day when recipients of SNAP food aid are caricatured in the media and used as a pawn in bigger political game, they ignore the humanity of the very people they are seeking to lead and guide. 

            They come to Jesus with this hypothetical situation and ask how this will all work in the resurrection that Jesus and other Jewish groups at the time believed in. Come on, Jesus, they say, this whole thing just doesn’t make sense! Just admit it, it’s just a fantasy to make everyone feel better. People have been wrestling with what happens when we die since long before Jesus and they still are today. Among Christians in the 21st century you’ll find faithful people who have very different ideas about what God means by resurrection and ideas about heaven. That’s to say nothing of those people of other faiths who have their own breadth of beliefs about the afterlife, and those who are not people of faith who certain include those who point to a logical argument to debunk the idea. 

            Jesus doesn’t explain how it will all work. God doesn’t have a rulebook that explains whose husband she will be in death. It’s not as if God pulls out volume 73 of the Heavenly Code and recited section 574 subsection B, defining the marriage rules of heaven. Instead Jesus’ answer is that they’re asking the wrong question. Falling into the fullness of God’s love isn’t about rules, or even human relationships and conceptions. It’s something so outside of what we can conceive that we wouldn’t even understand it. 

            What Jesus is doing, this whole resurrection thing, isn’t about fixing up the world as it is, it’s about an entirely new creation. Something beyond what we can conceive. 

            We have our own existential questions when faced with death – our own or the death of those we love. We want some assurance that we will be together again, some promise that it isn’t the ending. These become very real questions for us – will my pet be with me in heaven? Will my body be fully healed in resurrection? How will I be both the child my parent remembers and the adult my children know me to be? Will the streets be paved with gold? Will heaven be an endless feast or a joyful unending worship? 

            God’s answer to our deepest longings, the hopes we cling to in grief, is not to give us definitive answers, but to show us resurrection. Jesus doesn’t explain it all for us, but invites us to trust his leading through death into new life. God’s answer to every last one of those deep questions is “I love you. You are mine. I am bringing you new life.” 

            Jesus not long after speaking with these Sadducees goes to the cross and the grave. Jesus shows us the fullness of life and death. And then, when all hope seems lost, when the end has come, new life begins again. Jesus’ resurrected body is both familiar and mysterious, both comforting and challenging, both wounded and restored. In response to the fear and grief and pain of his followers Jesus shows himself to them and calls them forward into yet another new life, another restart, another resurrection. 

            The answer to what happens after we die is beyond our knowing. But God’s love and God’s promise of new life is already erupting in our world. Every time we get caught up in trying to puzzle out how everything works, every time we try our hardest to organize our life and our plans, God has something more in store. 

            When congregations are no longer sustainable on their own, God finds a way to continue the work of the gospel – for some through the generous releasing of resources, for others like you here at Zion/Reconciliation – in partnership that enriches and strengthens the opportunity for ministry. These are resurrection moments. And that’s really the way of the church – it’s not a place where everything is neat and orderly and life is made simple and easy. It’s a place where embodied people gather to be together and celebrate the ways that God is doing something new and unexpected in our midst. 

            When people go without food and strangers are not fully welcomed, our ministries make the table a little bigger and stretch the loaves and fishes until all are fed. When veterans are struggling to find a community that cares, a table is set to provide not just food but community. These are resurrection moments. 

            A few of you might have heard that my family and I traveled to Jamaica to attend a dear friend’s wedding and we ended up having to shelter there through the hurricane and its aftermath. We were and are safe, we were in a place of incredible privilege in the midst of disaster. As we talked with local people afterward, they not only spoke with a sense of togetherness, community that has and will support one another through whatever comes. It was a terrible tragedy that will take years and even lifetimes to recover from. Many are very much in survival mode still. And yet, there is resurrection already happening. They aren’t focused on how, they are focused on life. 

            This is what Jesus is about. Not careful plans, not everything going right, not everything working out neatly and orderly. Jesus is about life, wherever it is and however it comes. Jesus does not ignore death and all of the questions and grief that comes along with it. Instead Jesus walks us through it, not just telling us the answer but leading us there in this life and the one to come. 

-Pastor Steven Wilco

Holy Cross, Tree of Life

Holy Cross Day & Second Sunday in the Season of Creation
September 14, 2025
Grace Episcopal Church of the Southern Berkshires

            Last week I worshipped with my home church community, Our Savior’s Lutheran Church in South Hadley.  The first Sunday after Labor Day is a nationwide Lutheran day of service, and at our church we continued the long process of making the church property more environmentally friendly as well as supportive of our human neighbors. There is a growing vegetable garden to support the local food pantry, a gradual transformation of grass lawn to wildflower meadow, a hope to make space for people to come and meditate in the natural world. Nothing compared the extent of your work here at Gideon’s Garden but a big endeavor for the small congregation. Several members are dedicated to learning and leading in this endeavor and last week my task for our day of service was to tackle some invasive plants. 

            I was pulling up swallow-wort, an invasive plant Monarchs sometimes mistake for milkweed, laying eggs that hatch caterpillars that can’t eat the plant. It was seemingly everywhere in the small patch in which we were working, its seedpods already opening and spreading themselves on the wind. It felt futile even to try, but every plant and seed pod put away was something against what should not be there. 

And I was pulling out as much oriental bittersweet as I possibly could. This invasive vine is well known for taking over. It grows up and grabs on to whatever it can – in this case some large and healthy evergreen trees. It can outcompete native species and take over an area. It was easy to identify, but as I pulled at one part of the vine it would bring along with it vines from other directions, often bringing with it much longer vines trailing much higher up than I realized. I would wrap a bit around my hand, pull until it either came loose or stuck firm, and used the clippers to what I could. It was, I have to say, rather satisfying to pull these up, even though I knew I could not fully eradicate it from the property.   

            As I did this, it was reminding me of a hymn called There in God’s Garden. It’s a hymn often sung on Good Friday: a beautiful poem that weaves the tree of wisdom from the Garden of Eden, the cross of Jesus’ death, and Christ himself crucified and risen in every age. These are the first three stanzas*: 

1   There in God’s garden 
stands the Tree of Wisdom,
whose leaves hold forth 
the healing of the nations;
Tree of all knowledge, 
Tree of all compassion,
Tree of all beauty.

2   Its name is Jesus, 
name that says, “Our Savior!”
There on its branches,
see the scars of suff’ring;
see where the tendrils
of our human selfhood
feed on its lifeblood.

3   Thorns not its own 
are tangled in its foliage;
our greed has starved it, 
our despite has choked it.
Yet, look! it lives! 
its grief has not destroyed it
nor fire consumed it.

These mighty evergreens on our church grounds stood, continuing to grow, to shelter other life, to breathe oxygen into our world, even with the vines that grew, tangling themselves in the foliage, threatening, if not to overtake the mighty trees, at least to bother them a bit and choke out other plants. 

            How like our world, where our greed attempts to starve the tree of life, where our spite has choked it. The invasiveness of our human destruction is everywhere. We remember in this season especially the way we destroy habitats, harm our plant and animal neighbors, pollute our waters, and consume carbon at alarming rates, destabilizing the climate that supports us all. While the bittersweet might not fully choke out those evergreens, our destruction might well destroy the earth our home. 

            So, too, all the terrible things we do to our human neighbors. We use guns to silence those we don’t agree with and destructive weapons to destroy people we consider expendable. We plow forward with policies that leave too many without healthcare, food access, and even their freedom. Our whole communities are harmed immigrants are singled out and shipped away. 

            I don’t know about you, but it feels like those things are reaching up like oriental bittersweet, not only making it hard to grow and thrive, but putting us at risk of death itself. I’ve become so accustomed to the evil in the world and within myself, that those things seem like the native species of our garden. 

            Jesus invites us today in the gospel to keep walking, not to let the powers of evil and destruction overtake us. But that invitation is one that can be exhausting. Fighting the vines of greed, fear, anxiety, prejudice, and division, it feels as if they pull us down even as we try to take those steps forward. Ripping them from our world takes concentrated effort and even then it only does so much good. 

            The garden in which we live, despite the prevalence of those invading vines, is one that is planted for our flourishing. A garden rich in welcome for all creatures – human, animal, and plant alike. A garden that produces food enough for all. A garden that grows shade and shelter for people from every tribe and nation. A garden that flourishes from the peaceful interconnectedness of a great multitude of species. 

            We have a call, my siblings in faith, to do our part to pull out those invasive species. Literally, of course. But figuratively as well. We plant anew every spring to feed people with nourishing vegetables, but also with needed mentorship and community in your garden. We advocate for policies that protect the most vulnerable. We share our resources with those in need. We seek peaceful ends, not just to global conflict but in our own small disputes with our neighbors. We learn and pray and act. And it is never enough.

            As I pulled up the bittersweet last week I knew I would not get it all. It is, even now, growing back in places. The swallow-wort had already gone to seed and our destruction of the remaining pods on one small property does not quell the advance of that and other invasive species across the state. We do that work not because we will fix the world, but because we honor the garden of wisdom and life that continues to grow. 

            On this Holy Cross day, we honor the symbol at the heart of our faith. The cross we wear around our necks, that we process in worship, that finds prominent place on banners and church logos – it’s become so common I think we forget what it really means. Yes, an instrument of shame and torture, but more than that a reminder that oppression, death, violence, destruction are all an ongoing part of our world and that Christ is deeply present in it. 

Paul says it this way in Galatians: May I never boast of anything except the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, by which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world. Another hymnwriter, Marty Haugen, says it this way: Tree of Life and awesome mystery, in your death we are reborn; though you die in all of history, still you rise with every morn. 

In every garden there is death and new life. In every place weeds and invasive evil abound. And yet the tree of life stands in the midst of it all, breathing life-giving oxygen to feed our breath, sheltering and shading, producing nourishment for body and soul, experiencing with us the victories and the defeat, drawing all people to the center. 

God promises one day a new creation, a restoration of that beautiful garden to its natural state, creating a home for all. But we live today knowing that is not just some distant reality, but the foundation of our earthly home despite so much evidence to the contrary. 

And so the last three stanzas of that hymn: 

4   See how its branches 
reach to us in welcome;
hear what the Voice says, 
“Come to me, ye weary!
Give me your sickness, 
give me all your sorrow,
I will give blessing.”

5   This is my ending, 
this my resurrection;
into your hands, Lord, 
I commit my spirit.
This have I searched for; 
now I can possess it.
This ground is holy.

6   All heav’n is singing, 
“Thanks to Christ whose passion
offers in mercy
healing, strength, and pardon.
Peoples and nations, 
take it, take it freely!”
Amen! My Master!

*Text: Király Imre von Pécselyi, c. 1590-c. 1641; tr. Erik Routley, 1917-1982; Text © 1976 Hinshaw Music, Inc.