22nd Sunday after Pentecost
October 20, 2013
22The same night he got up and took his two wives, his two maids, and his eleven children, and crossed the ford of the Jabbok. 23He took them and sent them across the stream, and likewise everything that he had. 24Jacob was left alone; and a man wrestled with him until daybreak. 25When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he struck him on the hip socket; and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26Then he said, “Let me go, for the day is breaking.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go, unless you bless me.” 27So he said to him, “What is your name?” And he said, “Jacob.” 28Then the man said, “You shall no longer be called Jacob, but Israel, for you have striven with God and with humans, and have prevailed.” 29Then Jacob asked him, “Please tell me your name.” But he said, “Why is it that you ask my name?” And there he blessed him. 30So Jacob called the place Peniel, saying, “For I have seen God face to face, and yet my life is preserved.” 31The sun rose upon him as he passed Penuel, limping because of his hip. – Genesis 32:22-31
We’d like to think of Jacob as a great hero of the faith. He is the first, after all, to receive the name of Israel, the name that persists to this day as a name of God’s people. He is one of the great patriarchs of the Bible. But like most heroes of the faith, he’s not all we make him out to be. Let’s recap his story for a moment.
He’s born not first but second, holding on to the heel of his twin brother Esau. He is named Jacob which means literally the one who grabs the heel, but idiomatically it means the one who deceives. He is the smaller of the two, the less adept at the task of hunting and providing. He is the one who deceived his aging father, tricking him with a grand plan to receive the blessing of the firstborn instead of Esau. Then he flees in fear. When he ends up at a well far from home and falls in love with an attractive girl, he follows Rachel home and works for years to earn the right to marry her. After being deceived and overworked by his father-in-law, and after he’s tricked into marrying Rachel’s older sister Leah before he can marry Rachel, he manages to deceive his father-in-law in return, working out a long-term scheme to defraud him of his best property. And then he flees there, too. When we meet Jacob again in today’s story, he is about to face his brother again for the first time since they parted under the threat of murder. Still it seems he is conniving a way to make himself look more sympathetic. Not exactly a hero of the faith, yet clearly the chosen one of God.
Does his story sound familiar? Do you know anyone who has messed up royally in his life? Do you know anyone who let self-interest guide her thoughts and actions? Do you know anyone who has a broken relationship with his own family? How about someone who would rather run away from her problems than turn and face them? Do any of those people you know who remind you of Jacob call themselves Christians? Are any of those people who remind you of Jacob actually yourself at one point or another in your life?
Maybe we haven’t done exactly what Jacob did – his story is what we might call a soap opera today. But I think we can relate to the complexity of his life and the frequent choice between bad and worse options. The desire to have the place of blessing when we see it going to others. The desire to be in a new place free from the problems that plague us in the moment. I think that all of us can find ourselves in Jacob’s story at one time or another. I hope you’ve heard me or someone say before that the characters we like to hold up as heroes from the Bible are often not the perfect people we imagine them to be. But they are called to be the people of God.
And that calling to be the people of God means a call to wrestle. It means a call that pulls those faithful women and men up out of where they were and plants them somewhere new. It means a call that will involve hard choices and difficult questions. It means a call that will draw them into situations way over their heads, like every faithful person called by God before and after them. This encounter that Jacob has in wrestling with this physical manifestation of God is no more difficult or bizarre than the way in which he has already been wrestling with God his whole life. Wrestling with his place in the community of faith emerging from Abraham’s line and with all that came with it.
I know that some of you already understand this, but I don’t think we can say it enough, that faith is more about wrestling with questions, with engaging a relationship with God and God’s call to us, than it is about doctrines and beliefs. I don’t meet many people who believe every line in the creeds we say every Sunday every time they same them. But I meet a lot of people for whom that statement of faith ties them to a community of people past and present wrestling with who God is and what God calls us to be. A community of faith holding one another through difficulty and mistakes and fearful times.
But sometimes we are afraid to wrestle, scared to make demands of God, to take our open honest feelings to God. Sometimes we are hesitant to insist that God listen to us. Not just our happy joys and our deep concerns, but also our daily frustrations and our moments of weakness, anger, pride, and fear. All those things we try to shoulder on our own. You see, it is mighty difficult to wrestle with God or to pound relentlessly on the door like the widow if your hands are still trying to hold all those things yourself. It is hard to engage in that struggle when we try to bear even the little things we hold onto in our lives.
But even when we are able to free ourselves for the struggle, we do not walk away unscathed. When Jacob wrestles, he is struck in the hip. He is marked by God, perhaps for the rest of his life. With every step he will be reminded of what it means to wrestle with God. With every step he will bear the visible mark of the one who has loved him through all his errors, through all his striving, through all his hurts and disappointments, through all the trials that still lie ahead, marked with the reminder that he is one who wrestles with God.
But Jacob does not leave with only a limp because he demands from the wrestling a blessing. And the blessing that he is given comes with a new name. A name that wipes clean all the dark past that lies behind him. His first name described his struggling from his very birth – the one who grabs the heel. His new name does not change who Jacob is, but it gives him a name that communicates not his own weakness but God’s power. Jacob becomes Israel – one who prevails with God – a name that puts him in constant relationship with the one who struggles with him.
Jacob isn’t the perfect hero. And neither are most of the Biblical characters. Jacob’s renaming is a reminder for him and for us that the real hero of Jacob’s story and your story is the one with whom we wrestle. The hero is the one who has the power to call us, name us, bless us, and struggle alongside us.
For you have been called, and marked, and blessed and sent to be the people of God. You have been washed by the waters of baptism and marked with the cross of Christ forever. You have been given new names as the children of God and welcomed into the struggle. May you, like Jacob, come to know even more fully this one with whom we wrestle, that you might continue to live more deeply in the wonder and grace of that intimate relationship with God.
-Pastor Steven Wilco


