A reading from the Gospel according to John:
5So Jesus came to a Samaritan city called Sychar, near the plot of ground that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. 6Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired out by his journey, was sitting by the well. It was about noon.
7A Samaritan woman came to draw water, and Jesus said to her, “Give me a drink.” 8(His disciples had gone to the city to buy food.) 9The Samaritan woman said to him, “How is it that you, a Jew, ask a drink of me, a woman of Samaria?” (Jews do not share things in common with Samaritans.) 10Jesus answered her, “If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, ‘Give me a drink,’ you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.” 11The woman said to him, “Sir, you have no bucket, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? 12Are you greater than our ancestor Jacob, who gave us the well, and with his sons and his flocks drank from it?” 13Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, 14but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.” 15The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water, so that I may never be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.”
16Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come back.” 17The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; 18for you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true!” 19The woman said to him, “Sir, I see that you are a prophet. 20Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain, but you say that the place where people must worship is in Jerusalem.” 21Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father seeks such as these to worship him. 24God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.” 25The woman said to him, “I know that Messiah is coming” (who is called Christ). “When he comes, he will proclaim all things to us.” 26Jesus said to her, “I am he, the one who is speaking to you.”
27Just then his disciples came. They were astonished that he was speaking with a woman, but no one said, “What do you want?” or, “Why are you speaking with her?” 28Then the woman left her water jar and went back to the city. She said to the people, 29Come and see a man who told me everything I have ever done! He cannot be the Messiah, can he? 30They left the city and were on their way to him.
31Meanwhile the disciples were urging him, “Rabbi, eat something.” 32But he said to them, “I have food to eat that you do not know about.” 33So the disciples said to one another, “Surely no one has brought him something to eat?” 34Jesus said to them, “My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to complete his work. 35Do you not say, ‘Four months more, then comes the harvest’? But I tell you, look around you, and see how the fields are ripe for harvesting. 36The reaper is already receiving wages and is gathering fruit for eternal life, so that sower and reaper may rejoice together. 37For here the saying holds true, ‘One sows and another reaps.’ 38I sent you to reap that for which you did not labor. Others have labored, and you have entered into their labor.”
39Many Samaritans from that city believed in him because of the woman’s testimony, “He told me everything I have ever done.” 40So when the Samaritans came to him, they asked him to stay with them; and he stayed there two days. 41And many more believed because of his word. 42They said to the woman, “It is no longer because of what you said that we believe, for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is truly the Savior of the world.” – John 4:5-42

We all know thirst can be dangerous. Even most casual hikers know that if you’re going to be out for even a few hours you better bring some water with you. If you end up lost in the wilderness most people know that one of your most important needs is water. Endurance athletes, and I only know this because I read runner’s blogs and magazines occasionally, learn how much water their bodies need during long periods of exercise. When you get thirsty it’s a warning sign that your body is already below the ideal hydration level. When thirst comes you’re already starting to operate below peak mental and physical capacity. The longer it goes the worse it gets for you.
Thirst is not a good thing. And our world is thirsty. There are places experiencing now extreme drought – in the Western part of our own country, in Haiti and Pakistan, and other places around the world. There are people thirsting for other things too: people thirsting for employment, thirsting for community and an end to isolation, people thirsting for strength and courage in the face of fear.
The woman in our gospel reading today is thirsty. She comes to the well thirsty for water, of course. That is why one brings a water jug to the well. But as the story unfolds we discover that she is thirsty for something else. Maybe it’s not even something she’s been able to name for herself yet. Somehow in her life she is already lacking in something and longing for relief. It seems to me that she is thirsting to be known and loved for who she is.
There is speculation that she is isolated from her community. It does seem odd that she comes to the well in the heat of the day. The other women would have come in the morning when it was cooler and easier to carry the water. They would have gathered there to share news of the village and to talk with one another. That this woman comes at noon indicates that she is a little bit isolated from her community.
A lot of people also seem to think that this woman was longing for forgiveness.The line people focus on is when Jesus tells her he knows she’s had five husbands and a man now who is not her husband, as if this is an indication of loose morals or her inability to maintain relationships. We don’t know the circumstances of this woman’s situation, but I think it’s fair to assume that there could be all kinds of reasons for this. Perhaps this woman was abused and abandoned. Perhaps she had experienced tremendous loss in a culture in which her livelihood depended on finding someone to partner with. Whatever the reason, Jesus doesn’t offer forgiveness in this story.
Now, to be clear, if there was anything to forgive, it’s clear that Jesus offers forgiveness pretty freely. That’s an important part of what he came to proclaim. But I don’t think that’s what he does in this story.
What seems more important in this story is that the unnamed woman is bowled over not by forgiveness, but that she is overwhelmed that Jesus knows her intimately and yet still wants to engage her, still wants to offer her living water. Jesus knows the things she keeps close to her heart and wants to be in conversation with her anyway. This is about guilt vs. shame.
Guilt can drive us to important changes in our life. It can drive us to make up for things done wrong and to make different choices going forward. It at least has the potential to be transformative. But it doesn’t tend to make us thirsty.
But shame can do just that, because it is not based in an actual wrong that can be righted. It’s based in perceptions about who we are and who others are. It tends to drive us to keep things hidden rather than sharing them in the open. And it can be self-perpetuating. The thirst just gets deeper the more we go down the path of shame.
That’s what Jesus transforms in this story. He pulls who she is out into the open. He acknowledges their profound cultural differences, he names this unusual series of relationships she has, he quietly acknowledges her presence when I suspect others tended to avoid her. And she realizes it’s okay. How many of us would be okay with all of our hidden stuff being laid out in front of us? If someone we met on the street suddenly knew the things we are afraid to tell our closest friends or especially the things we are afraid to tell ourselves.
When Jesus names the truth out loud it suddenly seems to lose its power. She realizes it’s ok when the truth is on the table.
All this answers a big question for me that I’ve always had about this reading. You see. I’ve never understood why the whole village follows this woman to meet Jesus. She comes running up and tells them that some man has told her everything she ever did. So? She met a psychic. What’s the big deal?
But if the conversation goes more like this: “I know you don’t talk to me. I know we don’t even talk about not talking to me. We don’t talk about the fact that I had 5 husbands or that I don’t participate in the community activities. But I’m just met this man who knew exactly who I was and he made me realize that all this is silly. I’m done pretending that everything is ok.” And maybe suddenly they realize what they hadn’t even spoken to themselves. They realize that the truth everyone was afraid to name has been named and it’s not just okay, it’s transformed them in an instant. Now that’s reason to come running to Jesus.
And I see that happen in our congregation. In this community I seem glimpses of it. People sharing who they are and being surrounded by community. But what would it be like, sisters and brothers in Christ, if every time we walked through the door into this building we felt safe to name the parts we hide about ourselves and that this community were known for being a place where it was safe to be fully who you are in a radical way unheard of in our culture.
What if we named our thirst to one another? What if when we talked about drought in the world, we stopped pretending that we can go on using up water without concern for the wider world? What if this were a place were we talked openly about unemployment without the stigma our society attaches to it? What if this were a place we named our isolation and were surrounded by community? If this were a place we named our hopes and fears and shame and it was transformed?
That’s what Lent is all about. We try to make it about guilt. Because that’s easier – to name our wrongs and fix them. To stop bad habits or start good ones. And that’s all well and good. But what Lent is really about is naming our shame and laying it at the cross where it gets turned upside down. It’s about making our selves vulnerable and finding Christ holding us. It’s about the promise of Easter – new life rising up for us out of the midst of our shame transformed.
So this story does not promise that we get everything we want. Or even everything we need. The woman, after all, runs off without her water jug. But it does promise us that no matter who we are and what we think of ourselves, that Jesus knows who we are and loves us all the more.
And we are here today to proclaim that truth. And to be a reminder for one another. Because we need this place to remind each other of who God is for us in word and song and bread and wine. Here at this table you are known. Your thirst is recognized. Love is poured out. The living water is offered to you. Come. Eat, Drink, and Live.
-Pastor Steven Wilco
Thanks to Pastor Tim Brown for his commentary last week on this text for helping me pull together my thoughts for this sermon.
To support those who do not have access to clean water in our world, visit Lutheran World Relief’s Water Project: http://lwr.org/ourwork/water



