A Sermon for the 22nd Sunday after Pentecost
November 9, 2014
Then the kingdom of heaven will be like this. Ten bridesmaids took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. 2Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3When the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them; 4but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. 5As the bridegroom was delayed, all of them became drowsy and slept. 6But at midnight there was a shout, ‘Look! Here is the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ 7Then all those bridesmaids got up and trimmed their lamps. 8The foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ 9But the wise replied, ‘No! there will not be enough for you and for us; you had better go to the dealers and buy some for yourselves.’ 10And while they went to buy it, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went with him into the wedding banquet; and the door was shut. 11Later the other bridesmaids came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ 12But he replied, ‘Truly I tell you, I do not know you.’ 13Keep awake therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour. – Matthew 25:1-13
Are you waiting for the second coming of Jesus?
Anyone?
Well, I am. You don’t hear much conversation about it from mainline protestant churches, except maybe when we want to discredit the street preachers who claim the end is coming tomorrow at 4 o’clock. Maybe you don’t hear much about it because talking about waiting for Jesus to come again is too reminiscent of all the rapture talk that takes obscure Biblical imagery and turns it into a totally unbiblical theology. But I am waiting for Jesus to come again.
When I was a kid I used to play mind games with myself about when Jesus would come. Like I’m going to think about him coming back today, but since I’m thinking about it and no one knows the day or the hour, then he won’t come today. Or I would imagine what it would be like – flashes of light like a sunrise the whole world sees at once, or more like the first time Jesus came around – subtly, maybe already among us. Could it be that guy over there? While I don’t spend a lot of time thinking about that any more, I’m still waiting for Jesus to come.
I’m not waiting to be dazzled by the glory or waiting for judgment for my enemies or waiting really for my own salvation to something better. I’m waiting for Jesus to come because this world is so deeply broken. And like the bridegroom in today’s parable, it is long into the night, long past time for God to come, and any reasonable person might assume he’d skipped out on the whole thing altogether.
After last Tuesday’s election some people are celebrating and others are picking up pieces, but so far I’ve heard no one promise on either side that they will save the world. You hear talk about international strategy but no one promising to once and for all solve the crisis in the Middle East. You hear about how best regulate big banks and how to create jobs, but no one promising to fix the underlying problem of human greed. You hear arguments about who should be allowed to get married, but no one promising to find a way to heal all the brokenness from relationships that fall apart. Because those promises are too far fetched even for politicians. We must engage the political process to work for peace and justice before and after an election, and great strides can be made in public policy, but finally at the end of the day we’re all humans and humans are going to find a way to mess things up. So yes, even if it sounds a little odd to our modern ears, I’m waiting for Jesus to come again.
In today’s parable, the bridegroom does finally show up, long into the night after all the waiting maidens have ended their slumber party and fallen asleep. The coming is swift and the party begins quickly. The door is shut and that’s that. The decisive coming to end all strife and violence, the decisive coming that we have all been longing for comes, but then we don’t like it when it happens because if we’re honest we want everything happy and pleasant and have a little wiggle room. We want to say, ok, sure, come on in late. Ok, sure, we’ll open the door again. Ok, maybe one more time. I think most of us aren’t quite ready to give up control of things ourselves. Most of us would still like the world run according to our rules. Even if those are rules about letting everyone in, the problem with that rule isn’t so much the sentiment behind it as it is that we’re not the ones who get to make the rules about how the kingdom of God works. We don’t get to decide when and how Jesus heals the world.
This is probably a good point at which to say two things this parable is not. It’s not an excuse for us to start making up rules about who gets in and who gets shut out. Because we like to draw boundaries that aren’t always so good, we’re better off making sure the door is open wide and the invitation is made clear. And I’m reasonably certain this parable is not about keeping our lamp oil to ourselves. Whatever its significance in the parable, in the context of the whole of the gospels, it is clearly not an injunction to keep things for ourselves, whether material things or even the tendency to hoard our own sense of how things ought to be.
But I think it is a parable that reminds us that things are quite beyond our control. You see, the labels are actually reversed in this story. The wise ones are those who did a cost-benefit analysis and planned the right amount of oil for the expected length of time and maybe even a little extra. They did everything according to plan. They did exactly what was prudent. The foolish ones are those who just grabbed up all the oil they could find for no logical reason whatsoever. The Bible calls it wise, but we call it imprudent. Here’s the thing – the kingdom of God simply isn’t about getting it right. It’s not about doing the right good works, or about living the right way, or giving away the right amount. It’s not about church membership, or standing in society. It’s not about wealth or good looks. It’s not about any system we can devise from logic. It’s more about stocking up on oil, keeping an eye out for God, and giving up on our plans, rules, and schedules. The kingdom of God is like a bridegroom who shows up impossibly late with no good excuse to speak of. The kingdom of God is like a group of people who were so excited for the banquet they lost all common sense and gathered in the abundance around them. The kingdom of God is like a bridegroom who finally at one time or another sets a firm boundary about what the kingdom is going to be about.
Perhaps this is really a parable of judgment on all the things we long to see come to an end. An end to all the careful calculations about who is better than who, or our written and unwritten rules about who gets food and shelter and respect. An end to all the carefully constructed ways we lift up some people over others. If this parable is really about Jesus coming again, then maybe the firmly shut door is the decisive victory over evil and death that we’re all longing for.
But reading this parable still leaves most of us with a nagging question – what if we’re the ones who get shut out? What if I’m the one who with all my calculations and attempts to control my life and our fate goes running off after something not important in comparison to the feast that is set. Even if we find ourselves shut out, we only have to keep reading to the next chapter in Matthew’s Gospel to realize that being shut out we find ourselves in the company of another one shut out of Jerusalem, abandoned by his followers, and hung on a cross. Someone reminded me after a recent sermon about another not dissimilar parable of judgment, that when we find ourselves shut out, that’s exactly where we find Jesus waiting. In the moment of being shut out we find the whole parable turned upside down: it is not us waiting for Jesus but Jesus who waits for us. God’s never ending light shining until we finally land ourselves hopeless and helpless at the foot of the cross.
So let’s wait together for the coming of Jesus. And lets do it with joy and abundance. Let’s do it with music, which we have in abundance today and thanks to Matthew Cron, our organist of 25 years, every Sunday. Let’s wait with generous hearts that open to others with compassion. Let’s see if we can catch a glimpse of the party happening here and now while we wait. And when the waiting is done, I think we’ll find we’ve already begun the celebration and find Jesus waiting for us with lamps lit and table set. Let us join the feast!
-Pastor Steven Wilco


